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Fast and Gentle Remedies for the Big "D"

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It’s that time of year. Friends have been saying they’ve had some major tummy distress that produces some rather undesirable (and sometimes embarrassing) side effects. Unfortunately, I myself had a bought of food poisoning this week – the very day I was supposed to perform in Handel’s Messiah. Eeeek! I needed a remedy – quick! So, although there’s a certain “ick” factor to posting about something like this, I will sacrifice my dignity to share my remedy for the bigger “D” with the world. Haha!

Here’s what’s in my medicine cabinet to treat the dreaded diarrhea.

First of all – straight water and tummy ailments don’t go well together. There’s a reason why Saint Paul recommended a little wine for the stomach’s sake. (No, I don’t believe it was just grape juice.) Water can feel very bracing to a sore stomach. So, instead, mix up the remedies below with some gentle, weak teas – like chamomile, mint or cinnamon. All good for healing and comforting what ails you.

Secondly, use one of these Remedies and GO TO BED. Rest and you may find you don’t get sick at all. Contrary to current popular belief, wandering around feeling like crap, trying to prove you’re superman (or woman) – and likely infecting everyone you’re in contact with is not “Fighting the flu, cold, etc.” It’s just giving it more time for a big windup that will likely knock you down for the count.


At the Onset of Ickiness

Charcoal Pills
These aren’t supposed to work for the flu but they will help with food poisoning (since the big “D” can happen with either, they count). Activated charcoal has a vast surface area and is good at absorbing all sorts of random particles. So, it is used by emergency rooms to neutralize poisons and drugs.

That said, it will neutralize the effect of any medicine being taken with it as well, so medication should be taken separately. A relatively healthy person who doesn’t have any liver or kidney problems will appreciate the fast acting benefits of charcoal. It never hurts to check with your doc about taking something like this.

Blackberry root
Blackberry root has astringent properties, which means it can knock out the big “D” pretty quickly. This year, I was prepared. I made blackberry root tincture this summer in preparation for this year’s stomach flu season. For the uninitiated, a tincture is simply an extraction of the herb’s medicinal properties into a base of alcohol, glycerin or vinegar. I use brandy. It also mitigates the sometimes punchy taste of this herb.

While I had tincture and drank it every hour for about 6 hours, Rosemary Gladstar, a well-known American Herbalist, also suggests making tea from the root, along with slippery elm and cinnamon. This is probably the easiest remedies for people who are newbies to herbs. Soothing and pretty tasty. This is something I use for my kids also. You can purchase blackberry root & slippery elm bark online from Mountain Rose Herbs. They offer great prices and high quality.

To make this tea, use 3 parts blackberry root to 2 parts slippery elm. Use one teaspoon in a cup of water and simmer for twenty minutes. Strain and cool – then drink 2-4 T every hour or more often as needed. You can add cinnamon bark to the mixture or sprinkle some cinnamon on the top of your drink. I usually add raw honey to whatever tea I’m making since the big “D” takes so much out of it’s victims.

Blackberry Jam
If you’ve been blindsided by the big “D” and don’t have any blackberry root, anecdotal information says that blackberry jam might still be helpful. Blackberries are nutritious and have some fiber that might slow things down a little. It tastes great in yogurt or a smoothie. Just be sure your jam is mostly berries with a little sugar – and no corn syrup. Ick.

Raspberry leaf tea 
Raspberry leaf is also in the astringent category – and thankfully, tastes more mild than the blackberry root, which makes sense since roots tend to have a stronger flavor than leaves. You can make a tea out of it like I did – and toss a few rose petals and lavender in for flavor – or just drink it straight.

To make this tea, add 1 T raspberry leaf per 8 oz boiling water. Steep covered for a few minutes and drink with a little raw honey. Always use raw – it will help your tummy feel better too.

Rosemary Tea
I just discovered rosemary as a stomach comfort the last time my husband had the stomach ick. He was actually having a hard time keeping anything down as opposed to the topic we’re discussing today. I steeped a bit of rosemary in boiling water – just like tea – and he was able to drink it with a little raw honey. It is supposed to help with stomach cramps and he said it worked for him. I would not recommend rosemary for pregnant women.

Chamomile Tea
A comforting, soothing choice for sore tummies.

Mint Tea
Some people really love mint tea for tummy aches. It’s not my personal favorite – but mostly because I’m not a huge fan of mint when I’m feeling seasick.

Coconut water
If you haven’t had coconut water before, this is a great time to try it. Coconut is awesome. It’s anti-bacterial, anti-fungal, anti-viral and anti-microbial. More importantly, coconut water will replenish nutrients lost to diarrhea like potassium and electrolytes. We use coconut water and teas instead of Pedialyte in our house. My kids never would drink Pedialyte and I think it tastes nasty too.

When you’re dealing with something like the big “D” that sends you running to the toilet at the most unexpected times, it’s best to give your body a little rest from hard to digest foods – at least temporarily. They’ll only prolong the pain a little longer. Instead, go for clear liquids like teas and broth. Chicken broth (especially homemade) is high in magnesium, calcium and other yummy nutrients that will provide nourishment to your taxed system without causing more crazy tummy distress.

Here are a few more things to avoid
Caffeine – a diuretic that will wreak havoc on a system that’s already taxed. Give your bowels and your adrenals a break and avoid this during illness
Oatmeal – too rough on a sore stomach.
Dairy other than yogurt
Wheat toast – too rough on a tender tummy
Anything acidic like tomato or orange juice.

That’s it for the herbal remedies we currently use.

Just a note…Blackberry root and raspberry have an astringent effect on the body – that’s why they’re useful for diarrhea. However, to stay hydrated, mix it up a little in the drink department. Remember tea – not soda. I remember doctors always recommending 7-up or gingerale when I was a kid. However, I recently read that carbonated beverages might not be the best option for sore tummies. Something to do with the carbonation causing more discomfort as the bubbles expand the stomach. You decide. You can still get the hydration and a bit of sweetness from honey tea – without corn syrup.

As usual, I want to clarify that I’m not a doctor or herbalist and this information is not intended to diagnose or cure any diseases. It’s meant for informational purposes only and I encourage you to do your research and consult with an herbalist or Naturopathic doctor for more information about herbs – especially if you have a pre-existing medical condition or if you are taking any medication. That said, I’m not trying to scare you away from herbs but encourage you to be informed about whatever it is you are choosing to put into your body. The reason I love herbs is that they are usually far more gentle on our bodies than over the counter prescriptions and remind our bodies how they are supposed to work!
Be healthy.

Sage Cornmeal Biscuits

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Last night we had a rather scary experience with our youngest, who fell off a chair and whacked her head hard enough to frighten me (which is actually pretty difficult). We called our doctor’s office and they gave us the usual instructions to postpone bedtime for a while, watch for concussion signs and then wake her after about an hour of sleeping.

Unfortunately, the accident happened right before bed (of course) so the girls were up pretty late and Rob stayed up even later to wake our youngest at the proposed time. To make matters worse, she did not fall asleep right away but spent an hour after we put her to bed talking. Clearly, she was not hurt as badly as we thought (thank goodness!) but we were all pretty exhausted this morning.

So, we slept in really late and enjoyed a fun wake-up hour with the kids giggling and playing before breakfast. When we finally made our way downstairs to eat, I realized we were out of our favorite Ezekiel bread (sprouted wheat, protein rich), so I decided to make biscuits. They were so good, I knew I had to post the recipe. Then, I laughed because I realized one of the few recipes I’ve posted here is another biscuit recipe. So, just to clarify…we don’t eat biscuits very often (unlike at my mom’s house where we ate them weekly! Boy, were they good!). But, every once in a while, a good biscuit is just the ticket! These are awesome with eggs but they’d be just as good with soup.

I started with a recipe by Mary Kincaid that I found over at www.allrecipes.com. You can see it here. But, I made some adjustments to fit the way we eat, including switching to whole wheat flour and replacing the milk with yogurt. They were simply amazing – tender and full of flavor.

So, add these to your list of healthi-er, fast things you can make during the holiday season.

Sage Cornmeal Biscuits
Original Recipe Yield 10 servings
Time to prep – 10 minutes, cooking time 8-12
Preheat oven to 450 F
  • 1 1/2 cup whole wheat flour
  • 1/2 cup cornmeal
  • 1 T. baking powder
  • 1/2 teaspoon rubbed sage*
  • 1/2 teaspoon salt

Wet ingredients

  • 1/3 cup butter
  • 1/2 cup yogurt
  • 1/2 cup milk 

Tools
Food processor – you know I’m going to suggest the food processor for recipes like this because it’s so fast! But, you can use a bowl and pastry cutters (or forks/knives) instead. It’ll just take longer. And I don’t have time for that!

Directions

  1. Combine the dry ingredients in a food processor or bowl. Pulse till ingredients are thoroughly mixed. Nothing is worse than biting into a biscuit and getting a mouthful of salt or baking powder!
  2. Add 1/3 c butter, cut into 1 inch cubes. Pulse until the texture contains coarse crumbs
  3. Add yogurt and milk and use a fork to just until moistened. If you use the food processor, just pulse lightly till the mixture barely holds together. This is one of those things you don’t want to overmix. You’re going to knead it anyway.
  4. Knead 5-6 times on a lightly floured surface. 
  5. Gently pat to desired thickness (we made big biscuits – 1″ thick) and into a rectangle. This makes about 6 biscuits. If you want more, simply pat the dough thinner – 1/2-3/4″ thickness and cut into more pieces.
  6. Cut the biscuits into squares (I don’t have time for biscuit cutters and this way I don’t have to re-roll dough, making it tough).
  7. Place about 1 1/2 inches apart on an ungreased baking sheet
  8. If you make the larger biscuits, they’ll take longer to cook – 12-15 minutes. Smaller biscuits take 8-12. They’re done when the tops are golden brown and the middle looks baked.
* This recipe includes sage, which gives it a lovely, warming flavor. If you don’t have sage, other flavors that would be nice include savory, rosemary, thyme or maybe even oregano. You could also throw in 1/2 cup of dry cheese, like parmesan – into the dry ingredients – for a cheesy flavor that would work great with soup. 

"Own Ur Day"

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This morning, I woke early – too early – to go hiking with one of my very best friends. In fact, I woke before my alarm because my two year old has gotten into this rather awful habit of waking at 4 am and calling, “Mommy, I want to hold you!” This morning (thankfully!), she slept in till 5 but I couldn’t go back to sleep for fear I’d miss my hiking date. That said, I texted my girlfriend and said, “Sure you still want to go today?” Hahaha!! What can I say, it was cold this morning!

When 5:30 rolled around, I extricated myself from my little snuggler’s arms and deposited her safely in dad’s while she loudly expressed her displeasure at my leaving. Undeterred, I kissed her goodbye, bravely stepped out into the brisk morning air and promptly doubted my sanity. It was FAR too cold (and dark) to go hiking. Maybe we could get coffee instead?

At the mountain, my friend and I laughed about the thought of bailing for coffee – no way! – and charged up the path, shivering and giggling at how wimpy we were being. With the fresh, rainy smell of creosote in our nose, we settled into a rhythm and started catching up on the latest events and lessons going on  in our lives. She’s always been that kind of friend to me. Sincere, encouraging, funny – and when necessary – honest. It’s like a mutual therapy session!

Me – after I hiked. Sun in my eyes but feeling awesome!

When we finished hiking and said, “Goodbye!” with a big hug, I no longer doubted my sanity for kicking my butt out of bed this morning. I felt relaxed, energized and ready to start my day.

I need these kinds of mornings. Sure, I get up and walk regularly to keep my body feeling strong and my mind clear. But, sometimes, I need more. I need to make the extra time to see a friend at a ridiculously early time – to tell her she’s that important to me.

I need to know I am strong enough to conquer that mountain – even when I’d rather be in bed. I need to know that I have and am an amazing friend. I need to remember who I am – and take that into my day. So that I can do what my friend Eric constantly says – “Make this day great! You decide how your day will be. Own ur day!”

I’m owning this one. Are you?

My Disney Princess

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My four year old is really into princesses and romance- already. I know, it’s terrible. I blame her grandparents completely. (haha!) They bought her the first Disney movie and she’s been hooked ever since. We have Mulan, Cinderella, Belle, Sleeping Beauty, Snow White, Enchanted, Shrek…you get the picture.
Most of the princesses really offend my feminist sensibilities as 1. They allow themselves to be abused by the antagonists in the story. 2. They have no other goal in life than to find a man to marry 3. They make really stupid decisions (i.e. eating an apple that a creepy old lady offers) that would kill them in real life. Thank God for good little fairies…
Unfortunately, my daughter does not share my convictions. I try to encourage her to think through the kind of man she should marry (even though she has no idea what I’m talking about). She speaks frequently of princesses and princes and loves to act out the stories.  She recently sighed. “And I will find my prince and I will kiss his lips and we’ll get marraaaaid” (her pronunciation)
I said, Your prince should be more than handsome, sweetie. He should be smart, good, gentle and kind and love you so, so much!” 
Her answer? A dramatic sigh with her hand to her head and…
“I’ll never find my prince, Mommy.”