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Not Your Mother’s Hamburger Helper

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Last night, after a late afternoon trip to the library, I made dinner for my family while my husband played with the kids. I was pretty excited I got to cook because my husband and I fight over dinner rights. We both find cooking so relaxing. There’s something about planning and timing and chopping and touching all that beautiful fresh food that is immensely nourishing to the soul.

Of course, we try to pick food that is nourishing to the body as well. But lately, my challenge has been picking nourishing food my three and a half year old will actually eat. She’s been on a yogurt, bananas and bread kick. Not bad choices but not very balanced. I usually have to say, “Sure, you can have that – AFTER you eat what I’ve made.” Last night, my goal was to make something colorful and delicious that she’d at least be willing to try. It also needed to be quick because the girls were pretty tired.

After a quick inventory of the contents of the fridge, I found myself reaching for the basics. We had a small package of grass finished beef, carrots, fresh tomatoes, red and green peppers, onions, scallions (we’re kind of onion fanatics), fresh garlic and some rice we’d cooked a few nights previously. As I listened to my daughters and husband chortling over whatever crazy game they had created, I reached back through my memory banks to figure out what my mom would have created with food like this. Here’s what I did with it.

Not Your Mother’s Hamburger Helper

Ingredients
1.5 lbs grass finished ground beef
2 large peeled carrots
2 tomatoes
1/2 green bell pepper
1/2 red bell pepper
1/2 onion
1 green scallion
3.5 cups of cooked rice (Mine was seasoned like Mexican rice courtesy of my husband)*
3 T. olive oil
1 t. paprika (more to taste if needed)
2 t. dried oregano (less if fresh)
1/2 cup chicken, beef or veggie stock

1. Brown the beef in a large saute pan or wok (I used a wok). Just add a few tablespoons of olive oil and cook till you can’t see pink in the meat anymore.

2. While the meat is browning, mince the onion and throw it in with the meat.

3. Generously add salt and pepper to the meat – as well as the oregano and paprika.

4. Chop the carrots, peppers and scallion and garlic. I cut everything pretty small – almost minced – like confetti. I never liked big chunks of carrots in my food as a kid & neither do my girls.

5. Throw the carrots and peppers in as soon as you finish chopping them.

6. When the carrots and peppers are cooked, add the scallion, garlic and rice. I like to add garlic at the end to keep it as close to fresh as possible, retaining more of the nutritional properties.

7. Add a little chicken, beef or veggie stock if needed. Cooked rice can be a little dry after a few days.

8. Heat all the ingredients thoroughly.

9. Very important… TASTE the food!!  Add salt, pepper or spices if necessary.

10. MOST important step – always cook with love on your mind.

*Potatoes would be an appropriate substitute for the rice. While they don’t need to be staples at every meal, they are very nutritious and a great source of potassium.

Dinner came together pretty quickly and we all sat down and gave thanks for the food in front of us. Then, my daughter took one look and grimaced. I smiled and told her she had to taste it. She took a tentative bite, her face lit up and she said, “Mom, this is really good. I love meat!”

Yay for small successes!!!

Just a little birth faith…

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I ran across a great post today on Busca La Luz’s blog, Birth Faith. She brings up some great points about birthing positions and how woman lose about 20-30% of their pelvic floor by laying on their backs during birth. I first came across this information in Pam England’s book, “Birthing from Within”.

Take a minute to think of the ramifications of this information. Women lie on their backs in birth for a few reasons, among the most common…
1. They are being administered an epidural and/or pitocin and are attached to a monitor.
2. The doctor can “see” what’s going on better that way. It has nothing to do with making birth easier

As a result, labor for a woman on her back may not progress very quickly because her pelvis is compressed as much as 20-30%. Is it any wonder so many women are given episiotomies and/or a c-sections?

I can attest that being upright and mobile made the birth of my second child a very different experience from the first. The first time, my 30+ body, giving birth for the first time seemed to be saying, “You want me to push WHAT out of my WHAT????” I found the hospital atmosphere uncomfortable and my labor progressed slowly. Twenty-eight hours after my water broke, many physicians would have counseled me to have a  c-section.

Fortunately, my physician believed that letting my healthy, un-distressed baby find her own way out was far safer than opting for a surgical delivery. She did offer the option of pitocin and an epi – which I took. And, lucky for me, my daughter did find her own way out without surgery. The second time, I was comfortable at home with my midwife and moved around naturally, doing chores around the house till I felt ready to get down to business. A good use of all that “nesting” energy! This time, my labor only lasted 5 hours.

I do believe there are times when a c-section is a wise choice. I just don’t believe it’s necessary as often as it’s performed. Regardless, I do NOT believe in condemning women for their delivery choices. We need to encourage each other, educate ourselves on birth and trust our inner wisdom and our bodies!

Take a little hike over to Busca’s blog. She does a great job researching the subject of childbirth and is committed to providing balanced, interesting information about making the experience of birth a beautiful thing.

Lazy Girl Split Pea Soup

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We’ve had lots of lovely meals lately – Christmas Eve tamales and a huge Christmas ham. Since then, we’ve been eating pretty simple food. Yesterday, my girls and I had a lazy day at home and I made homemade split pea soup in the crock pot. I don’t use my crock pot much because it has a tendency to make sort of soggy food which I don’t really like – but it’s perfect for soup that needs to cook a while – especially when I’m too lazy to watch it!

I pre-soak split peas because it helps to make them (all legumes, really) more digestible. Plus, it reduces cooking time! Soaking is a very simple process. Simply cover the legumes with filtered water by a few inches and add 2 tablespoons of apple cider vinegar or lemon juice. Leave them on the counter overnight and rinse a few times before using the next day. I try to prepare two batches of beans at once so I am prepared for a few meals. Try being the operative word.

Split Pea Soup
**As a former teacher of mine used to say – “Read All the directions before starting!”
1 ham bone, optional (I got mine from my mother-in-law’s Christmas ham – and it still had meat on it)
2 cups soaked split peas
1 whole onion
5 or 6 medium carrots
3 o 4 stocks of celery
2 bay leaves (optional)
Sea Salt to taste (not till the end or your beans will be tough!)
4 cups filtered water*
*If you don’t use a ham bone, you might want to use chicken stock instead of water. 
1. Mince the onion, carrots and celery and throw them in the crock pot. Traditionally I would sweat the veggies in a pan with some butter or bacon fat first (YES, I said bacon fat!) but this is a LAZY recipe so I just threw it in the pot. Incidentally, these three ingredients are pretty much the basis for most great soups.
2. Add the ham bone and split peas
3. Cover the whole thing with filtered water by a few inches. I didn’t actually measure it but it should be at least twice as much as the amount of peas you add. So, 2 cups peas = minimum 4 cups water.
4. Turn the crock pot on high and cook for 5 or 6 hours. If you have more time, you can place it on low for longer. But, like I said, it was a lazy day so I didn’t start my recipe till about 2 pm.
5. AFTER the split peas are cooked (they’ll be soft and squishy), carefully scoop the veggies and peas out of  the pot and puree it a bit at a time in the blender.
6. After all the flavors are thoroughly blended, add salt to taste – a little at a time. Don’t be stingy. Soup tastes bad a lot of times because it’s not salted enough. We only use Sea Salt at our house – not that iodized stuff, despite the fact that my father was one of the first Morton Salt sales people in AZ. “When it rains, it pours!”
7. Be sure to take the rest of the meat off the ham bone!
Serve as is or with a little sour cream or plain yogurt on top.We also ate hot biscuits with our soup.

As a testament to how lazy I was yesterday, I rinsed the adzuki beans I soaked the night before and threw them in the leftover water from the peas. The water was already flavored by the carrots, celery and onion. We’ll eat that tonight. Like I said, LAZY…

The picture at the top of the page is what my girls and I enjoyed together because I wasn’t standing in the kitchen cooking!

Happy Holidays – Really.

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Lots and lots and lots of gingerbread!

This time of year, motherly duties get amped to a different level. There is a house to clean, laundry to wash, kids to manage, extra shopping to do, holiday cards to send, parties to attend (or throw), rehearsals and concerts to perform in or attend… That list could go on indefinitely. A lot of us cram activity into every corner of our calendar and drag our families along for the ride.

Instead of enjoying the events that should create positive memories for us, we can end up racing from one thing to the next – just hoping we’ll finish on time. I get grumpy, overwhelmed and stressed out by my normal list of things to do, never mind a holiday list! Usually, I find myself saying a lot of, “Wait a minute,” “Let me just finish this first,” or “Shhh…Just be quiet for a minute so I can think!” By the time the holiday arrives, the preparation leaves me feeling exhausted and anticlimactic.

This year, we made a resolution at our house. Instead of spending our holidays racing around or acquiring new stuff (after all, we just got RID of a bunch of stuff), we decided to buy fewer presents – like two small gifts per child – and focus more on making little memories with our kids, enjoying each moment as it comes! We baked cookies, drove around looking for Christmas lights and picked out and decorated the tree – together. So, we broke more than one treasured ornament because my three year old is really fast and grabbed them before I could stop her. I wouldn’t trade one moment to get those ornaments back.   I don’t want to miss out on the fun the holidays are supposed to be because I was too busy planning for them to enjoy my kids, friends and family. Today is the day to start enjoying every minute of life!

Happy Holidays, friends. May you stop and breathe – and be grateful for the love surrounding you!