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Red Hot Honey: Natural Remedy for Sore Throats

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When we have sore throats (even strep!) in this house, we reach for a fast-working, natural remedy, Red Hot Honey! Our secret remedy for sore throats in this house is a three ingredient recipe made with foods you should always keep in your house: raw honey, garlic and cayenne. It tastes a little like those candies from childhood – Hot tamales – only with garlic in them.

The dark honey we use works to ease sore throats & to stop coughs too.

This remedy helps minimize pain and has, in at least one instance, helped Rob recover from strep throat within three days without the need of antibiotics.

Raw honey – as in unpasteurized, unheated honey – has long been touted for its health benefits. It’s supposed to be rich in natural nutrients and enzymes and is used for anything from internal problems like coughs and indigestion to topical applications. You can get it from the grocery store but the more cost effective way to purchase it is from your local bee keeper. Here are two ways to find bee keepers in your area. *Remember – no honey for kids under 1 year. 

Local Harvest

Honey Locator

Garlic has powerful antibacterial and immune boosting properties. When using garlic in a remedy, I always use it fresh – not powdered, dried or in capsules. I have found fresh garlic to be the most powerful when using it to fight infection so I use my fresh preparations within two days to ensure the most effective healing benefits.

 

Cayenne possesses natural pain relieving properties and is purported to have anti-inflammatory benefits. It’s peppery hotness naturally clears congestion as well. I remember my first college voice teacher telling me to eat a dash of cayenne on a spoon of honey to clear congestion. I thought she was crazy back then but I heartily agree with her now!

Rob and I have been taking this for a few years when the need arises but our kids have never needed it. Recently my oldest had a terrible sore throat during the night and it took several hours to convince her to try it due to the garlic. Let’s be honest, garlic – well – stinks.

Finally, when she could not sleep due to the pain, she ate a spoonful. And, she was asleep within minutes. She slept another 7 hours without a sound and when she woke, pronounced her throat “tons” better. I gave her one more spoonful just for good measure – but she was better!

*Because Cayenne and Garlic both pack a lot of “heat”, I am always careful to keep the recipient hydrated between doses. Since I want it to coat the throat, I offer a drink before or 15 minutes after the honey. And, of course, I listen to my child and my gut. If the remedy hurts more than the illness, we discontinue it.*

When the pain eases, I discontinue this remedy and continue to offer immune boosting herbs like Echinacea and Usnea.

There you have it! Our family’s tasty, super powerful sore throat remedy that will relieve pain and speed healing.

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*As always, I’ll remind you that I am not a doctor.  These are common sense choices I have made for myself. I have taken the time to research any health decisions I make and have consulted with my local herbalist and naturopath when appropriate. I encourage you to always do the same before choosing to take or administer any kind of remedy, whether herbal, prescription or off the shelf at a local drugstore.*

Red Hot Honey: Natural Remedy for Sore Throats
Recipe Type: For sore, painful throats
Author: Organic Mama Cafe
Prep time: 5 mins
Total time: 5 mins
Rob and I take 1 t. doses every hour or two for a 4 doses or so. My kids get 1/2 teaspoon and after the first 1/2 t., I offer it based on whether my patient is feeling any pain. Garlic and cayenne both pack a lot of heat & after a few doses it’s possible for the throat to feel a bit dry. So I am careful to offer lots of cool fluids to offset the heat.
Ingredients
  • 1/3 c. raw honey
  • 3 to 5 cloves garlic (depends on what you can handle!)
  • 1/2 t. cayenne
Instructions
  1. Chop or slice garlic into small pieces
  2. Stir all ingredients together
  3. Eat!

How to Induce Labor Naturally or GET THIS BABY OUT!!!!

By | Natural Health, Pregnancy | 7 Comments

This is actually me with FOUR MONTHS left. You heard me. Imagine what I looked like on D Day! Or, don’t.

What really works to stimulate labor naturally? I never had to ask this question before my last baby. All my other kids were born early.

But with my last pregnancy, my estimated due date came and went,

and went,

and went.

Two weeks passed and we were close to having to schedule a medical induction because there are rules regarding how far past an estimated due date a midwife can attend a home birth in AZ. My midwife encouraged me to get this baby moving!

We were so far past the date that herbal methods like black and blue cohosh didn’t seem to be an appropriate choice and I only wanted to try those with a qualified herbalist’s advice.

Instead, I resorted to what all desperate mamas do in this situation. I googled “natural induction”. You can imagine the results. I got responses that ranged from the typical “baby comes when ready” to “eat pizza, pineapple and hot sauce”, preferably together. Ugh.

To be honest, I tried nearly everything except Castor Oil. (Well, ok, and the pineapple pizza with hot sauce.) The idea behind castor oil is that it cleans out a woman’s bowels, which are wrapped around her uterus. The movement is supposed to stimulate the uterus to contract. It worked for all the friends I’ve talked to who’ve tried it. But, I was grossed out by the thought and was afraid of being “sick” in labor. However, if what we used hadn’t worked, I would have tried it before resorting to a medical option.

The options below are from my own experience and I don’t recommend trying to induce labor earlier than a birth attendant suggests (midwife or OB). Babies really do have their own schedule and sometimes they need to go full term even if we feel ready. Always do your own homework and consult with your caregiver before trying any kind of induction methods, ‘kay? Just common sense here, people.

Here are the suggestions I used:

1. FOCUS on the task at hand. Having a baby requires focus and concentration.

2.  SEND the kids to Grandma’s (or your sister’s or your best friend…you get the point) if you have any. This goes with number one. Focus on the task. To do that – you might need your other peeps to give you a break. They can always come back when labor is progressing if you want them to attend the birth.

3. TALK to your baby. I’m not kidding. Find a quiet place. Tell  your baby you love him or her and are ready to meet them. Say it lovingly. Say it firmly. Say it with confidence and believe it. Say it out loud. You are the parent. Don’t be surprised when it works. Talking my kids into coming has sent me into labor all 3 times.

4. MOVE. As in walk. A LOT. I went Several MILES the day I went into labor. You can imagine how amazing that looked. I was Gi-gantic!

5. CONNECT with your partner. You made this beautiful life together. Be sure you’re ready to welcome it together as well. Seriously. If your partner has paternal leave, vacation time or sick time, ask him to stay home with you. When we hit the end of two weeks, Rob took off work to help me refocus and get things moving.

6. RELAX. Let your partner pamper you. Rob gave me a great massage that helped me relax and concentrate on the task at hand.

7. *****HAVE SEX.******  Boom, chicka, boom, boom, boom… Envision it. Yeah, that’s right. Pregnant women are sexy.

Seriously. I know, I know – some of you are thinking, “Really? I’m SO not in the mood” but – this works. Sperm is excellent for ripening the cervix. I could try to explain the science behind it but you can google it.
BUT – Don’t just have sex and get up to go to the bathroom like you usually would.

Have sex, then put your butt on a pillow and take a nap. Let that sperm hang out in there.

Your husband is cheering as you read this tip. Give the poor guy a break. Think of it as a last hurrah, something for him to hold on to in the sleepless, sexless nights to come while you’re recovering from birth. . 😉

**A friend recently asked if having a vasectomy will lesson the effectiveness of this step. The answer is – YES! A vasectomy blocks sperm from escaping. That’s how it prevents pregnancy. So, while you might get some contractions from the exercise and orgasms, there won’t be any sperm to soften the cervix. Do it anyway. It’s a great stress reliever!

8. PRAY and ask your friends to do the same. I sent out a request for prayer the day we stayed home to implement our “Get Giant baby out!” campaign and hundreds of my friends did just that. If you don’t believe in prayer, you can obviously skip it. But for me, knowing that friends who love me were thinking of me and were with me in spirit in that moment was a huge, huge encouragement.

9. – Think OPEN thoughts and take care of yourself. Imagine your pelvic floor as a wide open space to let that baby out.

10. *Castor oil. This should only be used after a chat with your OB or midwife. All the Mamas I know who used it drank the full 4 oz dose to get things moving. Eew. It’s kind of a last resort because  once you’ve done it, you can’t drink it again for several weeks.

11. Have Sex again. Seriously. Well, maybe BEFORE the castor oil. I don’t think I’d do it after. This IS THE SECRET TO GETTING THINGS MOVING! As many midwives say, “What put that baby in will get it out!” Just be sure you do it right. See step #7.

p.s. At 42 1/2 weeks, I delivered my 11lb 8oz baby naturally, at home with my midwife. Yeah, baby. I’m a rockstar now. Haha!

Seriously though, I wish I’d started going through this list a little sooner. Yeesh.

Think about your baby. Smile. Breathe deeply. TALK to that kid. YOU are the mama and you DO have influence over this experience.

I know we all have a plan for how we hope, expect, dream our baby will arrive. But in the end, if things don’t go as planned, be open to whatever is best for your family. Don’t linger on feeling guilty or disappointed if it doesn’t go exactly as you hoped. Just hold that sweet, squishy little baby and enjoy every minute.

*As always, I’ll remind you that I am not a doctor.  These are common sense choices I have made for myself. I have taken the time to research any health decisions I make and have consulted with my local herbalist and midwife. I encourage you to always do the same before choosing to take or administer any kind of remedywhether herbal, prescription or off the shelf at a local drugstore.**

Organic Mama Wisdom: Postpartum Care Tips

By | Natural Health, Pregnancy | One Comment

My dear friend is having a baby in a few months. As we celebrated her and her entrance to motherhood this weekend, I thought of a few practical tips I wish I’d known or accepted the first two times I had babies. This last time, as I’ve gotten back into the swing of baby-mothering, I feel so much more equipped and at peace with my role as my baby’s primary caretaker.

This postpartum healing experience is so different from my previous births, largely due a shift in my own attitude, approach to what really “needs” to get done and my willingness to let Rob pick up the slack. This time, I only took care of the bare minimums around the house and focused my energy on healing, nourishing my baby & loving his daddy and siblings.

As far as practical tips go, here are my suggestions.

 

Rest

You just ran a marathon

Climbed Mount Everest

and swam the English Channel

All that energy you feel

Is adrenaline

It wears off

 

Bask in the moment of your triumph

Let your body recover

It will take several months

To feel even close

To your old self

Yes

You are normal

 

In the meantime

Allow your friends and family

To celebrate you

And your new small one

 

Nurse right after labor

And every chance you get

See a lactation consultant

Birthing centers and hospitals have them

If you have trouble with your baby gaining weight after birth

See one again

It’s much easier to fix nursing problems at the beginning while supply is not yet established than it will be later

 

Rub coconut oil on your nipples after every nursing session

It is better than lanolin & won’t stain your clothes

Use it on your baby (it prevents cradle cap)

and all over you

 

Pretend you’re relaxing on a beach

Where there are no dirty dishes

 

 

Go to bed early, you’ll be up a lot in the night

Take naps, especially if your partner is home

Rest every chance you get

 

Eat watermelon

And you won’t fear your first post partum bowel movement

It’s better than stool softeners

Use your peri bottle

It will help you heal and cool things off down there

 

Don’t try to do housework your first week back

Let your love help you

In fact, let him be your servant

It’s part of his daddy job

Thank him often and kiss him lots

 

Eat nourishing food

Cooked veggies

Or Salads

Fruits

Protein

Carbs

Plenty of healthy fats

This is not the time to try to lose weight

You have a baby to feed

And a body to restore

 

Ask friends for help

Let loved ones bring you food

And pamper you

 

Start every day in the sunshine

Sing

Drink herbal tea

With friends

And relax

It will help you avoid

Postpartum depression

 

There’s plenty of time

To show off

Your new

Super-mom powers

 

Later

 

Congratulations, Mama.

 

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Finally, “Real” Women

By | Natural Health, Spirit | 4 Comments

Pictures posting

Comments flying

Women saying

“Finally, REAL women”

 

 

Wait~!

 

Skinny women aren’t Real???

Once again

We pass judgment

On ourselves

And our sisters

 

We define “Real” by the shallow

And not the substantive

We feel guilty

Dirty

Unworthy

 

We wait to feel beautiful

To love

To live

Until we are “perfect”

By someone else’s standards

 

But perfect never comes

Our chance passes

 

~It’s heartbreaking~

Women never living fully

Because they believe a lie

They’re not “Real” till a marketing ad

Has defined

Or undefined them.

 

~It’s our own fault~

Measuring ourselves

Our friends

Our children

Complete strangers

By only what we see

 

~When will we acknowledge our strength?~

Embrace this fragile treasure

Of LIFE

And stop caring

About how marketing gurus

Think they’ll best convince us to consume

 

When will we get angry

That a campaign highlighting “real” women

Still requires them be photographed in their underwear

Still objectified solely by sex

 

When will we decide

To stop defining ourselves by our appendages

By bone structure

Muscles

and skin

and a scale

as  though we are just another piece of meat

 

It seems a little ridiculous

When you think about it

 

It’s just flesh

Yet

In truth so much more

Than a dwelling for our spirit

A phenomenal part of us

Designed

To enjoy life’s sensual pleasures

Taste, feel, sight, smell, sound

 

We are so hampered by sight

We miss the rest

 

When we will embrace the fullness of what we are as women?

For our daughters

Our fellow-woman

Our lovers

Ourselves

 

We are more than the sum of our appendages.

We are

Spirit

Mystery

Sensual

Designer

Beauty

Provider

Brains

Intuition

Healer

Lover

Nurturer

Hope

Strength

Justice

Courage

Priestess

Light

Love

Beloved

Brilliance

Hilarity

Creativity

Life altering,

World changers.

 

~Each – perfect, unique works of art~

When will we look past

Physique alone

 

And recognize the deep beauty

The real-ness of each woman we see

 

Especially the one

We greet each morning

In the mirror

 

I am ready

Are you?

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