You *Are* the Perfect Mom

By | Honest Mothering, Spirit | 2 Comments

 

My dear friend

 

It is true

What they say

About having a baby

 

Your life will never be the same again

 

It can be better

If you let it

 

You will make mistakes

And that is ok

We all make mistakes

 

“Perfect mom”

is not looking

Over Your shoulder

 

You are the perfect mom for your baby

 

 

Be patient

with yourself

Be willing

To apologize

Don’t be afraid

To admit you need help

We all need a little help sometimes

 

When you look

In the mirror

Don’t worry

About the body parts

That look

or feel

A little saggy

 

They are your Mother badge

Of courage

Love

And strength

 

You are so much stronger than you think

 

You will be

a WONDERFUL

Wise

Smart

Compassionate

Kind

Intuitive

Faith-filled

Strong momma for this little person

 

Books and advice on parenting philosophies

can be helpful tools

But in the end

If you put down the books

Turn off the phone

And just be still with your baby

 

You will find

A quiet

Wise

Voice

Whispering inside you

All you need to know

To care for

And love her perfectly

You already know what to do

 

Relax

 

You got this

 

You are going to be amazing

 

Welcome to motherhood

Finally, “Real” Women

By | Natural Health, Spirit | 4 Comments

Pictures posting

Comments flying

Women saying

“Finally, REAL women”

 

 

Wait~!

 

Skinny women aren’t Real???

Once again

We pass judgment

On ourselves

And our sisters

 

We define “Real” by the shallow

And not the substantive

We feel guilty

Dirty

Unworthy

 

We wait to feel beautiful

To love

To live

Until we are “perfect”

By someone else’s standards

 

But perfect never comes

Our chance passes

 

~It’s heartbreaking~

Women never living fully

Because they believe a lie

They’re not “Real” till a marketing ad

Has defined

Or undefined them.

 

~It’s our own fault~

Measuring ourselves

Our friends

Our children

Complete strangers

By only what we see

 

~When will we acknowledge our strength?~

Embrace this fragile treasure

Of LIFE

And stop caring

About how marketing gurus

Think they’ll best convince us to consume

 

When will we get angry

That a campaign highlighting “real” women

Still requires them be photographed in their underwear

Still objectified solely by sex

 

When will we decide

To stop defining ourselves by our appendages

By bone structure

Muscles

and skin

and a scale

as  though we are just another piece of meat

 

It seems a little ridiculous

When you think about it

 

It’s just flesh

Yet

In truth so much more

Than a dwelling for our spirit

A phenomenal part of us

Designed

To enjoy life’s sensual pleasures

Taste, feel, sight, smell, sound

 

We are so hampered by sight

We miss the rest

 

When we will embrace the fullness of what we are as women?

For our daughters

Our fellow-woman

Our lovers

Ourselves

 

We are more than the sum of our appendages.

We are

Spirit

Mystery

Sensual

Designer

Beauty

Provider

Brains

Intuition

Healer

Lover

Nurturer

Hope

Strength

Justice

Courage

Priestess

Light

Love

Beloved

Brilliance

Hilarity

Creativity

Life altering,

World changers.

 

~Each – perfect, unique works of art~

When will we look past

Physique alone

 

And recognize the deep beauty

The real-ness of each woman we see

 

Especially the one

We greet each morning

In the mirror

 

I am ready

Are you?

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Restaurant Style Giant Pancakes or Best Pancakes Ever!

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As I promised to deliver, here’s a recipe for the most amazing giant pancakes ever. They’re light and fluffy inside and have the density to hold together when you flip ’em. I’ve been looking for a recipe like this that mirrors the giant pancakes from local restaurant, St. Francis. They serve an awesome brunch on the weekends. But, all my pancake recipes were either too thin or too dense to build a giant cake that baked all the way through before it burned.

Why do I care about giant pancakes so much??

Thanks for asking. Here’s why.

Problem 1: Pancakes take too long. I don’ t have a griddle and I hate standing at a hot stove forever making a bunch of thin little pancakes. Ugh.

Solution: Giant cakes.

Problem 2: I don’t really like them that much. Ironic, since this is the second pancake recipe on the blog. My other recipe is a dairy free, eggless pancake. It’s delicious but problem 1 still applies.

Usually, pancakes are just too heavy for me and I’d rather have something light and cool for breakfast like a smoothie. But lately, DGirl has been too “busy” to finish even her smoothies. So, I’ve been wracking my brains to find food she doesn’t want to “save for later”.

I confess I resorted to food that is traditionally covered in sugar.

Well, syrup. Same thing.

How’s that for an Organic Mama???

After a full day of holding Giant Baby last week (how I spend most of my time since he’s teething), I had to make a relatively fast dinner of the scant ingredients left in our cupboards and fridge at week’s end. We had plans that night with friends and we needed to move quickly.

So, I grabbed a pancake recipe I’d found on pinterest. Rob asked doubtfully, “Are you sure we have time to make pancakes??”

“Of course!” I answered. I then proceeded to completely change the recipe.

hehehe…

Apparently I’m physically incapable of just following a recipe as it’s written. A little imp in my head always whispers, “This would be better with ____”.

In this case, it whispered something about every ingredient.

And, guess what? I not only made my deadline, they were the best pancakes ever!

Man, after that buildup, I hope you’re not disappointed.

This recipe makes 7 giant (HUGE, handspan) pancakes – modeled after the big flapjacks at St. Francis. That probably translates into about 20 normal sized ones. This definitely a family sized recipe but the good news is, you can make them all and refrigerate to heat up later. They still taste good re-heated.

Let me know what you think!


S
tart with 3 c. flour. I didn’t sift it. Just scooped it out of the bag. Hey, I was in a hurry!

Add the baking powder.

And the salt.

Just a bit of sweetness…

Stir it all together. You want to be sure to evenly distribute the baking powder. I just used my measuring spoon.

Part of the levening genius of these cakes!

I think this is actually the secret to the amazing texture of these pancakes. Buttermilk. Yum. Not only are they a levening agent (fluffing power), they add the perfect depth of flavor.

For some reason, vanilla in my pancakes reminds me of Disneyland!

One thing I FORGOT to take a pic of – is the melted butter. That goes in now and it’s delicious. Mine got a tad browned and it just added that much more deliciousness.

Let’s just have a moment of silence for butter. My favorite flavor of all.

<BUTTER.>

Yes, I’m my Grandma’s true child.

Remember to put in the butter!

Moving on.

After you add the water, gently stir the batter just enough to mix the ingredients. It’s ok if it’s a tad lumpy. It will be super thick like frosting.

When you spoon it into the pan, spread the batter around a little. It shouldn’t be much more than 1/4″ high or it won’t cook all the way through before the outside burns.

This was the pan I melted the butter in so no judgement okay? No sense wasting good butter!

See how the bubbles are starting to pop through the surface of the pancake? You should see these all over the top before you flip it!

The bottom should be golden brown before flipping!

Aaaaannnnnndddddd…… FLIP!  See how perfect mine looks? Yeah, that’s how I roll.

Just kidding. It actually “squooshed” a bit but I just smooshed the batter back under the pancake.

What my family doesn’t know won’t hurt ’em.

And – TAAAADAAAAAAAAA!  This is what we had for dinner.

Only nobody really ate 4. I couldn’t eat a whole cake, it was so big. That’s ok. More for later.

Awesome, right? I’m not kidding. These ROCK.

High words of praise in this house.

Perfect Giant Pancakes
Recipe Type: Breakfast, or dinner, or 2nd breakfast, elevensies…
Author: Monna
Prep time: 10 mins
Cook time: 20 mins
Total time: 30 mins
Serves: 6
Fluffy, giant, flavorful pancakes!
Ingredients
  • All ingredients are organic.
  • 3 c. flour
  • 2 T. + 2t. baking powder
  • 1 1/2 t. fine sea salt
  • 2 T. brown sugar
  • 3 eggs
  • 2 1/2 c. buttermilk
  • 1 T. vanilla
  • 1/2 c. salted butter (if using unsalted, add 1/4 t. more salt)
  • 1/3 c. water
Instructions
  1. Place butter in a pan on med-low to melt.
  2. Measure dry ingredients into a large bowl and stir together thoroughly.
  3. Add 3 eggs, buttermilk, vanilla, butter and water to dry ingredients and stir gently till all ingredients are incorporated. Lumps are ok. Mixture will be thick.
  4. Using a ladle, scoop batter onto a hot, buttered pan and spread to no more than 1/4″ thickness. I cooked mine just under medium heat.
  5. When the surface of the pancake puffs up and is covered with tiny bubbles, flip it! If the cooked side looks burnt when you flip it, turn the heat down.
  6. Cook till underside of pancake is golden brown.
  7. Serve ’em hot and with syrup!
  8. *Organic Mama cooking tip: If the pancakes don’t cook all the way through before the outsides are burnt, turn your pan down a little!
Notes

If you have extra, refrigerate or freeze. When you’re ready to use them, place in a toaster or toaster oven and reheat.

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Flourless Lactation Cookies: Monster Cookie Style

By | Breastfeeding, Recipes | 116 Comments

Do giant chocolate chip oatmeal cookies studded with almond slivers sound like  the perfect snack today? You’re in luck.

If it seems like a lot of my posts are recipes lately, it’s probably because they are. I’m settling into life since adding Giant Baby to our family and I’m working hard to keep up with his milk needs.

Unfortunately, like my other two kids, he’s had pretty significant latch issues, including a high narrow palate and a severe upper frenulum tie. So, I’m pumping again this time to keep my supply up. Still, I’m pretty happy about the fact that he nurses at all since I didn’t get to nurse my other two babies.

Whether you’re nursing “Giant Baby” like I am (he’s 19 pounds and just turned 3 months today!) or nursing a normal sized kid, there are days when you might need a little boost in supply. As a mom who’s struggled to keep up my supply with latch-challenged kids, I have a laundry list of lactogenic foods, drinks and herbal galactagogues that can help.

Here’s one of the more fun ones!

I’d run across several lactation cookie recipes, including one that contained kale and carrots. The ingredients that are standard in all of them are nut butter (protein), oats (milk booster!) flax seed and brewer’s yeast. I added slivered almonds because these also contain lactogenic properties. Plus, they’re delicious and healthy.

Just a note about brewer’s yeast. I’ve heard it lauded from time to time as a milk-booster but in three babies, I’ve never tried it till now. Boy, I wish I’d found it sooner! It definitely boosted my supply. I don’t know if it’s the B-complex vitamins or what but it works.

Some people suggest drinking Brewer’s Yeast in water but I found that caused some stomach issues for me. Eating it in a baked good with flax seed meal seems to be even more effective and there are no unpleasant side effects.

The great thing about this recipe is that it contains no flour and includes more oatmeal than most recipes. It’s modeled after the Monster Cookie recipe my mom used to make for us as kids, though it only has 3 1/2 c. of oats instead of the 6 that her recipe used. I only had dark chocolate chips on hand but if you have butterscotch chips or some other favorite candy, you can use it too.

Even if you’re not nursing a new little one, these cookies are absolutely delicious.

Chocolate studded, oatmeal lactation cookies


Flourless Lactation Cookies

Wet ingredients

  • 1/2 c. butter (softened)
  • **16 oz REAL peanut butter – as in smooshed peanuts, not Jiffy or Skippy or any of that high fructose corn syrup enhanced stuff. (that’s how big my jar was but 14 oz would be ok too)
  • 1 1/2 c. brown sugar
  • 3 eggs
  • 1 T. real Maple syrup (optional)
  • 2 t. vanilla

Dry ingredients

  • 1/2 t. salt maybe 1/4 if you’re using really salty butter
  • 3 T. Brewer’s yeast
  • 1 c. flax seed meal (Grind the flax seeds in a coffee grinder for freshest taste.)
  • 3 1/2 c. oats
  • 2 t. baking soda
  • 1 c. dark chocolate chips (or toffee, butterscotch etc.)
  • 1 c. almond slivers

Preheat oven to 350º F

1. Stir together butter, peanut butter and brown sugar till thoroughly mixed.

2. Add eggs and beat till mixed.

3. Stir in vanilla and maple syrup.

4. Add dry ingredients and mix thoroughly. Nothing like biting into a pocket of baking soda. Yuck!

5. Use an ice cream scoop to shape cookies. Press flat on cookie sheet before baking. They are kind of sticky and a little hard to shape but press on. It is worth it.

6. Bake 17 minutes. The cookies should be chewy and soft, not crunchy. Your oven might be a little more or less so keep an eye on them.

7. Pour yourself a glass of milk and nosh.

Yum.

**You can substitute almond butter for the peanut butter.

Like this? Try my Zucchini Coconut Bread.

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Remember to take care of yourself mama!